There is no freedom to think, no freedom to speak your mind, and no freedom to do anything that 'the brethren' say not to. Sorry man, but if I knew what I know now I would have cut my losses.
Interestingly, my parents felt the same way about him.
The first vision is something she taught endlessly as a missionary - same with the Book of Mormon translation. What she taught is different from what the essays admit happened.
Through this, if you run into unforeseen issues like sold out movies or you cannot get a seat at a restaurant, you will always have a backup plan. See to it that she is aware of your plan, so you both can properly dress.