When those are not around or when the circumstances or the spirit indicate otherwise then prayer is more than enough.
Follow the footnotes and you start to find the lies. Or the links, in that first vision one.
Her church is more important to her than you are ever will beplain and simple. She is probably thinking she can convert you if she is with you long enough and is a good enough example.
As a budding feminist, I left the church in my teens. Forty plus years later I met my incredibly wonderful fabulous Mormon husband.
The important part of finding a partner to marry does not, in my opinion, revolve around whether or not you are of the same religion. I have many friends and members of my family who married within the church and later divorced.